(Wrote this more than a month ago to give a little more of a look into my life here)
I wake up early Friday morning to go for a run in the sports field nearby. As I leave our courtyard, a few of our kids are getting ready for school and greet me with big smiles. "Tu va faire le sport? (you will do a sport?)" I am still trying to figure out how even walking somewhere is considered a "sport." I smile back and greet them, wishing them a good day at school and "Bon appetite!" to those eating their morning "bouillie" (similar to cream of wheat, made of millet flour). I unlock our big gate and reach through the little hole to lock it behind me- goats and chickens wandering around outside the gate, just waiting to get in. I walk just a short distance around our outer wall to the entrance of the sports field (nothing like a sports field at home- completely dirt/sand). The sun in just coming up and the dust in the air makes it a strangely pretty orangish color. I run/walk around the huge field a few times. A few random goats, pigs, dogs, and chickens roam the field, and every few minutes a child walks through on their way to school. I greet them with a smile and "Bonjour!" Sometimes women will walk through with big pots on their head bringing things to the market to sell for the day. I greet them with "Ibeergo." "Ibeergo kibari!" they respond with a smile. Some laugh when the "Nasaras (white people)" speak in Moore, but many are very happy.
I finish my run and get ready for the day. I hate running, but always feel refreshed after running as the sun comes up. I eat a quick breakfast- often yogurt and homemade granola- and head across the courtyard for my Friday morning English class with the CM1 and CM2 (5th and 6th grades). I stand in respect as they sing the national anthem and raise the flag in the courtyard, and then enter the classroom. The kids all flood in, crossing their arms and bowing a little with their head in respect to the teacher and I (Bonjour Monsieur, Bonjour Madame). I greet them in English with "Good morning!" "Good morning," they call back. "How are you?" "I am fine, how are you?" they respond together. I've tried to get them to use other responses to the question (sad, happy, tired, sick, etc), but smile as they answer the same way and grin back at me, waiting expectantly for the next lesson. Today we reviewed body parts. We went over everything and then reviewed the song, "Head and Shoulders Knees and Toes." Schools use singing quite a bit here for teaching and helping the kids to remember things, so overall I think they like it :) They laugh as we try to speed it up faster and faster. As we finish, the CM2 leaves for their own class outside, and I hear kids continue to sing as they leave the classroom (which of course puts a smile on my face). Many shout, "Goodbye, see you soon!" as I leave the class.
Some Fridays I go and play with the babies til lunchtime. This week I worked on a document for the office staff (Brittany, Ruth and I are the only ones with a computer so Britt and I often help type up documents). I cannot say how much I appreciate Word's option to change languages- I would have no idea how to spell many words without spellcheck. After the document is done, I sit for awhile and cut placemats to prepare to send to the US to sell- our weavers have been making MANY more than usual, so there is always work to be done for Brittany and me.
I leave just before noon to pick up some bread for lunch. Sometimes we'll ask one of our kids to go out for us and give them some "bonbon (candy)" when they return, but today I went for a walk in the heat. I leave the courtyard and head for the nearest boutique. Women sit outside their home doing hair and yell "manawana (how are things?)" I bunch up a part of my pagne (skirt) to walk a little easier, and dodge the potholes, black saches (bags), and other various things lying in the street. Animals wander past and a dog sleeps in the middle of the dirt road. People greet me and I respond in Moore. I walk past a group of older men and say "Naywindega (good afternoon)." They respond and ask if I speak Moore, but I can only respond "Bilfu, bilfu (just a little)." I keep walking and a few young children run up to me, "Nasara! Nasara bonbon!" They excitedly shake my hand and grin, but don't say a word when I ask them how they are. I pass a large hangar where there are always cows and sheep standing around, and two sheep run around and around, through people and motos in a frantic chase. I giggle a little and greet the boutique owners. I ask for trois miche du pain and she gives me a choice of two different kinds. I choose the village bread we like best and pay her the 150cfa (about 30 cents).
As I head home, I can't help but smile at the sights and sounds that have become so familiar to me. The small path that leads to the orphanage- the trees lining the path with the black saches flying from the branches. We like to call them the national bird and the national flower as they are EVERYWHERE. Ruth, Brittany and I sit down to lunch- one of our favorite, veggie sandwiches (quick and easy). Veggies are more scarce now as the dry season is coming to a close and less crops are available. Tomatoes are almost impossible to find which leaves a few tiny onions and green peppers, cabbage, eggplant, and an occasional zucchini. Unfortunately mango season is closing as well.
12-3pm is "sieste" where literally the whole country rests for the 3 hours. In the hot season, no real work can be done and the people use it as a time to rest (as many get up very very early to get work done before the heat). Really I LOVE this time of day and see such a huge benefit to it. I come from a country where everything is go go go fast pace get everything done as quickly as possible and fill our schedules as full as possible while juggling not only a 10+ hour work day with family, other committments, and a perpetual inability to say no. My country is filled with high blood pressure and high stress levels with so many people suffering from an overall exhaustion as well as sometimes even depression. And yet in all of it, there is a profound emptiness in the hearts of many. As their schedules get more and more full, there is a stronger and stronger feeling of emptiness (I can talk more on that later though)... Anway I just see a huge benefit to just slowing down and taking time to just to
be. Not overworking yourself to death... It's an incredible feeling. When I first arrived I thought, "How can I ever get used to just sitting and not being occupied with a million things as the Africans do so easily?" Not only can they just sit, but they really take their relationships seriously. Now, I often just sit thinking or even just sitting. I don't always have to be doing something (like at home where even just watching a movie or being outside I felt as though I had to be doing something else along with it or I was wasting time).
For us, sieste is often used for a nap, but often for reading, relaxing, thinking, etc. The courtyard is fairly quiet during sieste as many of the kids take quiet time to rest, study or chat with each other. Don't expect to get anything done in town for those three hours! After sieste sometimes I'll head out to the baby play area. They come out after their naps as well as have an allotted after nap diaper changing time. They might get some milk and a little snack, and then are left to play together with the tanties watching over them. There's a great outdoor play area that's concrete and fenced in with a roof overhead. They crawl around laughing, babbling, and interacting with one another. Such an incredible difference from other orphanages. When I visited one awhile back, I was surprised to see the children just sitting with very little expression or movement and no smiles. It was very sad. Our kids are very well stimulated. Brittany's toddler class has done wonders as many of them are starting to speak or at least make more babbling noises. "Eliza!" I hear shouted at me. I respond to the toddler who shouted my name, and we go back and forth for a minute or two. "Eliza!" "Oui (yes)?" "Eliza!" "Oui?" They grin and laugh and I sit down and pick up one of the little ones that's crying. Immediately my lap is filled and I am surrounded by 4-5 toddlers and babies. The first one that gets into me crawls into my lap and the other slower ones cry out as
they wanted that spot. Instead, one more finds a spot on my calves and another lays their head in between the two kids on my lap. Estelle is learning to walk (a blog update on her soon!) and pulls herself up on my shoulder. She plays with my earring and giggles as I make sure she doesn't pull too hard. I feel my hair being yanked on and see Joseph trying to get my attention. I have to watch him carefully to make sure he doesn't spit in his hands before playing with my hair- no idea how he learned that. I watch the sights around me- tanties singing in Moore to the ones on their own lap, one of the toddlers clapping to the music, diapers changed, one cries out as another child takes their toy, but are quickly distracted with another tantie or an older child walking in.
Another thing I love is to watch the interactions of the older kids with the babies and younger kids. Two of our elementary school boys (much older than US elem. though) walk into the area and the toddlers run up to greet them- sticking out their hand and saying, "Ca va?" The boys laugh as they are also continually surprised to see what the toddlers are learning. They sit down and grab a baby. One finds clean diapers for the tantie who needs one. They chat with me a bit and laugh at a baby stealing a toy from another. "Voleur! (Theif)" the boy shouts. They pat the kids on their heads and leave for their various afternoon activities. On the weekend the back area by the babies has a number of older kids washing their hand washing their laundry- I still don't understand how they get everything SO white! A few sit at a table studying and few of the younger ones help the tantie finish up the dinner prep. 28 bowls are laid out on the wooden table in the outdoor "kitchen" and the white, fairly hard toh is plopped into each bowl. The sauce covers it and each bowl is nearly overflowing. Where do they put all the toh? Most of the kids are so skinny! It is good to see each one get three meals a day, even when they complain that they want something different than toh more often.
I head in for my own dinner. Usually something with rice or pasta and veggies. Brittany and I recently learned how to make the African peanut sauce that we love so much. We sit and chat around the dinner table, filling each other in on the events of the day, advances in adoption cases, and any issues we had. After dinner we relax a bit. Sudoku, reading, journaling... Some evenings we go out and spend time with the older kids, though during the school year they should be studying. I have an English help session tonight so I head to the tech center across the courtyard to meet the high schooler who needs help. I never realized how little I know the English grammar- it's tough when it's your own language, you just know the rules without thinking much about them. The French language is very focused on grammar though, so the kids often ask very specific questions about grammar. Sometimes I get stuck but sometimes I can answer their questions. I have learned a ton of French through this as well, as figuring out how to explain things can be a challenge. I also get to know the kids a bit in these times as they ask questions about my culture and we talk about differences and similarities with their culture. I just love spending time with them...
I head in after a bit and Brittany and I get coffee ready to take out to the guard. Hot water, Nescafe instant coffee, 4 cubes of sugar, and the bag of food garbage for the sheep. We chat with him a bit and he reminds us that it's almost Monday, the day he doesn't like. He lays back in his chair and Brittany and I walk around the courtyard saying goodnight to the kids, checking on their studying, and having short conversations. Ruth used to do the coffee before bed when I got here, but I just love being able to go out in the cool of the evening and see the kids to say goodnight. I gaze up at the stars (incredibly clear!) knowing that God is still looking out for me and I am so glad that He has a plan for my life. I know that even with the vastness of the universe, He cares for ME! He knows the number of hairs on my head and He wanted me in Africa for a reason. I often thing though, that I have already been blessed by the people of Yako and of Burkina Faso far more than I could have ever blessed them...
In for a quick shower (though I can never fully get the dust off) and then under my mosquito net for the night. Another beautiful day in Africa...
A servant for Him,
~Liz